When you cant afford an apartment alone, youll have to share that precious space with a roommateor roommates.
But despite most peoples dreams of living with their best friend, thats okay!
You dont need to be perfect buddies with your roommates to keep a happy household.
Its a stressful situation.
It feels like some ridiculous platonic speed dating when all you want is a roof over your head.
Im not unfriendly, just busy!
You arent trying to make friends.
(But thats because I never progressed beyond the stilted communication skills of a sarcastic teenager.)
I also give a shot to give people the benefit of the doubt if they just seem socially awkward.
Howd we work it out?
Give the benefit of the doubt as much as you’re free to.
Problems that recur are more frustrating, in which case you should probably talk directly and plainly.
But dont nag them like an annoying parent and dont be passive-aggressive about it.Just speak to the point.
Am I the weirdo in this situation?
Just touch base on occasion to verify that everythings fine.
You just to communicate clearly and treat your roommates with the same respect that you desire from them.
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