Don’t leave your first impression to the hands of fate.
Give your girlfriend a primer about the drama and dynamics in your family.
Those kinds of things.
The more she knows, the less likely she is to inadvertently “step in it.
If your girlfriend would like to bring a gift for your parents, that’s definitely a nice gesture.
Give her some suggestions on what would go over well.
Does your mom have a favorite flower?
Do they love trying new coffees?
You don’t want your girlfriend to offer a bottle of wine to your teetotaling parents.
Common ground she shares with your parents.
People like other people who are like them.
“Andrew tells me you’re into gardening.
I’ve been trying to dip my toes into it by starting a little windowsill garden in my apartment.
Let her know about how your family demonstrates physical affection.
Maybe your mom isn’t a hugger and it would be best for your girlfriend to offer a handshake.
Should she take off her shoes when she comes inside?
Will your parents expect you to sleep in separate rooms?
Do you always say grace before meals?
Although they write about this from a male perspective, it’s helpful for everyone.
Bringing Your Girlfriend Home: Tips for a Smooth Introduction| The Art of Manliness
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