Self-control is hard to learn.
Keeping yourself on task, forming a habit, or even just avoiding certain foods sometimes feels impossible.
Over on The New York Times, author Pamela Druckerman suggests using if-then statements to reign things in.
The secret of self-control, he says, is to train the prefrontal cortex to kick in first.
Done repeatedly, this buys a few seconds to at least consider your options.
The point isn’t to be robotic and never eat chocolate mousse again.
It’s to summon self-control when you want it, and be able to carry out long-term plans.
Learning How to Exert Self-Control| The New York Times
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