As you know, women are underrepresented in STEM fieldsand many areleaving these professions in droves.

Cate Burlington offers a list on the Toast of such things said to her by her male coworkers.

Some of them are plainly insulting and condescending, while others are backhanded compliments.

Just a few examples (with Burlingtons annotations):

How did you learn to do all this?!

The ancient Spider-Goddess Llorothaag came to me in a harrowing blood-soaked vision.

In exchange for perpetual servitude as her handmaiden, she imparted knowledge of IP subnetting.

No, when I complain about geek girls, I dont mean you.

Youre a real geek.

The Arbiter is speaking.

Let me know when you want to do that so I can help you.

No offense, but you just dont know enough about it to try it on your own.

Youre a girl, but youre not, like, a

girl

-girl, yknow?

When Llorothaag returns, you will be the first sacrifice I lay upon her profane altar.

Gender diversity is an important topicand weve become more cognizant of ithere at Lifehackeras well.