Nope, were not talking about putting your penis in your ladys asshole.

Were talking about stimulatingyourasshole.

If youre like many straight guys, your interest in this article just plummeted.

The Beginner’s Guide to Butt Play

Today were here to convince you that its time to stop ignoring your ass.

This is the third in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play.

you’re able to see the other posts in the series as they come outhere.

Why You, the Straight Guy, Should Consider Anal Play

Because it feels good!

Seriously though, youranusandrectumare full of nerve endings, just like your penis.

Your rectum is also home to yourprostate gland, another pleasure center.

Anal play feels great on its own, and can lead to unbelievably intense orgasms.

Plus, its a little taboo, which makes it exciting.

But Does It Mean Youre Gay?

Its a shame that so many guys still operate under the caveman-like mentality that butt = gay.

Lots of bi and gay men enjoy oral sex.

Does enjoying oral sex make you gay too?

The simple fact of the matter is that there are nerve endings in your anus.

It feels good to have stimulation there.

Stimulating it will give you a little hint of what anal play can feel like.

Have her start giving you a handjob or blowjob.

double-check youre aroused before venturing into backdoor territory.

When you tell her youre ready, have her start with touching her lubed-up fingertip to your asshole.

She should keep her finger there and continue her other activities.

If its feeling good to you, ask her to push her finger in up to the first knuckle.

She should continue at this pace for a few rounds.

Keep communicating about what feels best for you.

Illustration by Tara Jacoby.