The Wall Street Journal put together a list of some essential questions to get that painfully awkward conversation started.

What is your most joyful money memory?

How did these experiences shape your relationship with money?

What three things did you parents teach you about money?

Which lessons have you applied in your financial life?

Was your family rich, poor, or middle class growing up?

What were your familys values around money?

What is your greatest financial fear?

What are your most important financial goals?

What are you willing to do differently around money?

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