Hard choices are hard because neither option seems outright better than the other.

So, how do you find the reasons to finally make a decision?

Chang says that the reasons you should probably decide are created by you.

It’s an opportunity to form who you really are.

Remember a hard choice you made about something small, like deciding what to eat.

You came up with a reason for why you wanted to eat one thing over the other.

Save yourself the agony, and apply the same strategy to your big, hard choices too.

Ruth Chang: How to make hard choices| TED viaLifehack