Hard choices are hard because neither option seems outright better than the other.
So, how do you find the reasons to finally make a decision?
Chang says that the reasons you should probably decide are created by you.
It’s an opportunity to form who you really are.
Remember a hard choice you made about something small, like deciding what to eat.
You came up with a reason for why you wanted to eat one thing over the other.
Save yourself the agony, and apply the same strategy to your big, hard choices too.
Ruth Chang: How to make hard choices| TED viaLifehack