Maybe you talk too much in conversation; maybe you clam up.

Either way, communication skills dont come naturally for everyone.

For a better conversational flow, use the 50/50 ratio for talking and listening.

Sometimes its hard to build a comfortable pace in a conversation.

If you dont contribute, things can get awkward.

And if you share too much, the other person may be wondering when youll shut up.

Its one of those things that sounds fairly obviouslisten as much as you talk.

But putting a number on it can serve as a good reminder next time youre engaged in a conversation.

As Chua mentions, your ratio may vary.

If you have trouble getting the conversation going,weve got some tips for that.

For more tips on improving your conversational skills, check out Chuas full post below.