Some of us have a hard time saying no to people.

If you struggle with this, stop overcommitting yourself by making sure you always ask for time to think.

For some, this is a no-brainer.

The key is to take a deep breath and step back when you find yourself entering the people-pleasing zone.

Saying Im not sure yet, can I get back to you?

is a step in the right direction.

This gives you time to think the issue through so you dont feel pressured into making a decision.

This puts you in the habit of asking it, no matter what.

Saying Yes When We Mean No: Breaking the Habit| Tiny Buddha

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