These two mantras can help keep you in the realm of healthy sex.
The first is SSC, or “safe, sane, and consensual.”
The three guidelines are relatively simple.
Sane:Creating fantasy scenarios is fun, but blurring the lines between fantasy and reality can be dangerous.
It should also not harm the mind.
Be sure to communicate through all of these.
you could read a bit more about the SSC guidelineshere.
One major alternative guideline is called RACK, orRisk-Aware Consensual Kink.
The difference is a subtle, but very crucial one.
A mindset that can result in some potential problems.