Heres how you could set yourself up to be able to easily plan dates that are fun and memorable.

Being committed to a weekly date night with your partner helps you two become closer and more connected.

Set expectations around who is responsible for planning them.

The rule I use: whoever planned the date night should pay.

Once you start planning, put your date nights on your calendar and make them a priority.

If you have demanding work commitments, this may be a challenge, but its important.

Alternatively, save on the cost of a sitter bytrading off child care services with friends.

Focus on having a variety of activities that are new for both of you.

you’re able to use the novelty of these activities to revitalize your relationship.

Keep unique date ideas flowing by finding good sources of inspiration.

Riff off of activities you both already enjoy.

Beyond that, check out sites likeThrillist(U.S. cities) andTime Out(international cities).

They both feature local eventsandprovide rankings, suggestions, and reviews of places.

If youre really busy, try outsourcing your date ideas.

There are plenty of services, sites, and apps out there that will send you ideas for dates.

Go big every once in a whilenot just for anniversaries or birthdays.

Youll surprise your partner, try something really new, and get to feel pampered.

Some of the best date nights dont have to cost anything, either.

Avoid interruptions or temptations to check your phone by both agreeing to put your phones on airplane mode.

You might be surprised at some of the interesting anecdotes that arise.

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