Shower sex is pretty damn hot…in theory.

Safety First!

Asingleordual suction locking handlecan give each of you some much-needed leverage.

Thissuction foot restcan give you or your partner a place to prop up one leg.

(Incidentally, it also serves as a handy resting place when you’re shaving your legs.)

At the very least, put arubber bath maton the floor of your shower.

The dangers of slipping are real, people.

Don’t Use Condoms…

Another important safety note: condoms aren’t reliable in the shower.

They are prone to slipping off more easily, and can degrade during contact with the water.

So verify you have a secondmode of pregnancy and/or STI prevention.

…But Do Use Lube

Water will keep things nice and wet, right?

Water actually dries up natural vaginal lubrication, and can make penetration much more difficult.

Water-based lubes will wash away, so double-check your lube is silicone-based.

It can withstand contact with water for a pretty long time.

The partner being penetrated can hold their hands up against the shower wall for leverage.

One of the trickiest challenges of shower sex is dealing with height discrepancies.

Or, use some silicone lube to give an extra-slippery handjob.

Push your lady against the wall of the shower and finger her from behind.

You get the reassurance of knowing that everything is perfectly clean right before getting started.

you’re able to also use the shower as foreplay.

Tease your partner by letting them to watch you clean yourself, but forbidding them from joining you.

Or the catcher can sit in the pitcher’s lap, and they can grind against each other.

Keep It Quick

I highly recommend going for a quickie when you’re having shower sex.

Remember; it’s possible for you to always continue after you get out!

Illustration by Tina Mailhot-Roberge.