You’ve probably heard the saying before, “don’t burn your bridges before you cross them.”

Usually it’s a caution against doing things like suddenly quitting while telling your boss what youreallythink of him.

The metaphor of “burning bridges” in your life is something everyone understands.

But the image that comes to the forefront is one of a blazing inferno.

Maybe it’s the image of quitting your job in a

spectacular, memorable way

or some juicy scandal.

In reality, most burn bridges in a less sensational way.

More of a slow burn - a series of small missteps, perceived slights etc that tarnish your reputation.

Treat competitors not like enemies, but get to know them personally.Quit or leave your job with class.

Basic stuff, but it’s how tobuild a professional connection without the sleaze.

Don’t let your bridges burn| LinkedIn

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