When giving constructive criticism, you probablydont want to come off as a jerk.

Brain Pickings excerpted the rules or steps below from a book by philosopher Daniel C. Dennett.

Theyre meant to foster better discussion between you and the person youre criticizing, not just soften your criticism.

These are the steps:

How to compose a successful critical commentary:

1.

You should mention anything you have learned from your target.

Only then are you permitted to say so much as a word of rebuttal or criticism.

It might come off as more sincere than just complimenting the person before offering criticism.