Maybe they’re selfish or rude, or maybe they boast about themselves too much.

What specifically about them is so triggering?

(Spend a good amount of time here, dumping it all out.)

What are they modeling for me, in a “how not to be” way?

How does my reaction relate to my own values?

How could I practice more gratitude?

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