Thats where the platinum rule comes in.
It ignores that people are motivated by vastly different things…
The Platinum Ruletreat others as they want to be treatedcorrects that flaw.

As Bradberry suggests, If someone likes public recognition, give it to them.
If they dont like to be the focus of attention, however, keep them from feeling uncomfortable.
Theyll like you a lot more for it.
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