When we’re dating, we’re often very detailed in our observations of our partner.
We’re specific in our appreciation of the person’s appearance or deeds.
As we get used to the relationship, we’ll forget that specific praise.
You might take them for granted, so you might consider going back to those old ways.
Kids need to hear, “Great job sharing your toys!”
I decided to model this behavior myself before asking my partner to make the effort.
The more I expressed appreciation of his special strengths, the more deeply I appreciated him.
It’s really not that hard to make these changes.
Replace “I love you” on occasion with something you love about them.
Your partner will enjoy the compliment-who doesn’t like compliments?
You’ll learn to appreciate your partner’s positive qualities more often.
Why ‘I Love You’ Isn’t Enough| Psychology Today
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