It happens to the best of us: You have a hater, and it gnaws at you. Keep 99% of your focus on the positive voices. To quiet those loud reactions, focus on the positive compliments. This loud noise isn’t aboutconstructive criticism. That’s helpful, althoughhard to take. This noise is the loud people who have nothing constructive to add.

If you’ve got some surgery coming up, the first thing you’ll probably check is yourinsurance coverage. Hospitals policies aren’t consistent. Look for a hospital that encourages you to have someone with you. Visit the link below for other suggestions if you’re planning on surgery. 6 insider tips for safer surgery| Consumer Reports Photo byMaryland GovPics.

So-called “elite” status on airlines comes with a ton of perks. If you’re traveling with others, they might be able to use some of those perks as well. Elite Status Benefits that Extend to Family and Companions| The Points Guy Photo byLarry Johnson.

During this time of year, many of us have guests over for parties. Spills and other mishaps happen, and you don’t want accidents to ruin the party. I’d suggestvinegar and baking sodaas a good starting point. Hit the link for their full checklist. Put This in Your Holiday Hosting Arsenal: An Emergency Cleanup Kit| Apartment Therapy Photo byGunnar Grimnes.

Chromebooks have a crazy long battery life, but that doesn’t mean you won’t run out eventually. If you need a few extra hours on your Chromebook, sign in as a guest. shares a few tips on maximizing the battery life on Chromebooks. Check out the link for other ways to keep your Chromebook battery. Simple Ways To Get More Battery Life From Your Chromebook| OMG!

Here are some of the best guest posts from the past year. We’ve looked atlife lessons from your 20s,how to negotiate your salary, and much more. Let’s take a look at this year’s most popular guest posts. How to Stop Giving a F*ck What People Think We’re all guilty. A cop saw me and stopped me. Fortunately, I talked my way out of going to jail that night. I already had an arrest record, but he didn’t bother to check....

Managing your time to be productive can be done many different ways. you’re free to create more productivity time for yourself tomorrow by asking yourself one question every day. Speaker and performance strategist Matt Mayberry explains how to “multiply” time at business siteEntrepreneur. In a way, you’re procrastinating some of your work knowingly. As Mayberry further explains, it’s about getting away from living “urgently” and always thinking ahead. The New Era of Time Management| Entrepreneur...

There are many reasons why you might want to cut cable, and it’seasy to do. Try just putting your subscription TV on hiatus during the off-season. Each cable company has a different policy. Some will let you put a “vacation hold” on your account. Once the season starts up again, you might get your TV service back for the regular subscription fee. If they can’t do that, cancel the service during the off season....

When you might’t solve life’s big problems, solve the small ones. Here are 10 everyday experiences that are no fun, and how to make them a bit more enjoyable. But it doesn’t have to be all bad. Make ita bit more productive and funwith some audiobooks orbrain-boosting podcasts. Sit up straight and do some “desk exercises” to keep yourself from getting cramped.Practice a little mindfulness. And, most importantly,test different routesto keep things interesting (and find the fastest way there)....

Web connected thermostats are great, but they’re expensive. Raspberry Pi Thermostat Part 1: System Overview| The Nooganeer viaHack a Day

Not a fan of your Mac’s default text cursor blink rate? MacIssues points out that it’s super easy to change with a couple of Terminal commands. It’s in milliseconds. To make it faster, decrease the value. To make it slower, increase the value. How to change your Mac’s text cursor blink rate| MacIssues

It’s about how to become stronger when you get hit. Your sickness may have cut off one of your heads, but two have grown in its place. Two heads are better than one anyway. All you have to do is choose which one. The whole thing is worth the read, so check it out at the link below. Live Like a Hydra| Medium Artwork by Hans Sebald Beham (screenpunk).

As we get older, parties become gatherings where your behavior may determine whether you get invited again. Chances are your host has been cooking all day and counter space in the kitchen is at a premium. you could read more great party guest tips at the link below. Dos and Don’ts: 7 Ways to Be the Perfect Party Guest| Apartment Therapy Photo byJD Hancock.